Don’t Make This Mistake: Words That Hurt (and Heal) Abuse Survivors

Summary

“Why didn’t she leave?” It may sound harmless, but this one question shifts blame onto survivors and lets perpetrators off the hook. The truth is, language shapes how we view abuse — and the words we use can either hurt survivors or help them heal.

Hear how to spot victim-blaming language, reframe it to encourage accountability, and use your words to create safer, more supportive spaces. Through real-life examples and practical tips, you’ll discover how even small shifts in language can make a big difference.

By listening, you’ll learn:

• How to reframe harmful phrases into language that holds perpetrators accountable.
  

• Why your words matter in shaping culture, allyship, and survivor support.
  

• Three simple questions to ask yourself before speaking to ensure your language supports healing, not harm.
  

Listen in to learn how you can avoid this common mistake — and use your voice to be an ally!

Resources

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Listen to the past few episodes to learn how to be a better ally here and here.

The primary purpose of the Women Aware and Prepared Podcast is to educate and inform. This podcast series does not constitute advice or services. Please use common sense for your own situation.